We all know that “nose picking” in public is disgusting. I mean with all the hidden places around us, anyone can at least hide while doing the deed, right?
But will it be the same for a cute 2 year old boy?
Well, my intention was to actually capture a decent photo of him inside the boutique but apparently a finger decided to go inside a small hole! Lol! Still cute though!
A little smile will make a whole bunch of difference in a person that is frazzled..
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Posted on Dec 03, 2013 under relationships |
I was browsing the internet this evening when I suddenly stumbled upon this article that really got my attention. The article was written by Kris Wolfe and the list was all about the qualities that men look for a wife.
I honestly agree that long lasting love is not all about appearances like a beautiful face or a sexy body. For me, it is all about the character of the person that you will love for the rest of your life.
I can’t help but post the list here for you guys to see and comment. So here it is.
Here are 10 qualities of good future wife material based a man’s view:
(photo credits: Jose Luis Pelaez Inc)
1. She shares your beliefs
When it comes to finding your wife, I’ve heard “equally yoked.” It has nothing to do with weightlifting for those of you guys who like muscle women. Your potential wife should have the same beliefs you have. Now, you may think you can do some missionary dating, and turn that situation around so she will believe everything you do. You’re probably going to be very disappointed with some bad side effects. If you don’t have the same core beliefs….good luck.
2. She makes you a better man
If everyday is hell with her, that should be a red flag. Your potential wife should elevate you to Yourself 2.0. You can get a good idea from your friends and family. Do they say you act differently in a bad way when you are around her? Not a good sign. She should bring out the best in you, not bring out heartache and frayed nerves.
3. She’s trustworthy
In fact, she should inspire trustworthiness within you. If you don’t trust her, you’re probably making her as bitter as you’re making yourself. Not worth it. If you can’t trust her, maybe you’re not ready to date her or maybe you need to work on confidence issues within yourself. If there’s good reason not to trust her, don’t even go there. Just like any cheater, it’s bound to happen again.
4. She has ambition
She should have strength in character and carry herself with confidence. As a man, you should be the leader in the relationship, but for any dictators who feel justified here; we’re talking servant leadership. You probably don’t want the consummate follower either. She should have plans too. In fact, she should be a hard worker just like you. That doesn’t mean having a job is a requirement. One of my friends is a stay-at-home wife with three kids, and she works harder than any of my friends with careers.
5. She’s selfless
She should care about others. Look at the way she treats her family and her friends. If she’s not close with her family, and doesn’t have any good friends, that’s not a good sign. If you start dating her, much less marry her, you will discover why soon enough. Some questions to ask yourself: Does she care about causes? Does she go out and volunteer? Does she give change to the needy or buy them a meal? These are important characteristics to consider.
6. She’s attractive
In your eyes, she should be a “10.” When my wife walks in the room, I’m awestruck by her every time. She’s beautiful from the inside out. However, I’ve dated “hot” girls who ended up being downright ugly by the time we broke up. Personality plays into attractiveness big-time. Just remember, “charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting.” She should be beautiful down to her soul because that kind of beauty lasts forever.
7. She’s smart
You’re going to be spending a lot of time with her, so she should be able to hold a good conversation. She should be wise, smart, and give you good advice. Her women’s intuition should be strong. I look to my wife all the time for advice. She’s collected all sorts of wisdom from her mom. She remembers everything. Yes, everything….maybe too much.
8. She loves you unconditionally
If she’s trying to change you to be another person, it’s time to move on. Your future wife should love you just as you are, regardless of anything you’ve done in your past. There will be minor adjustments along the way, but if she nags you about your core characteristics, it won’t get any better in marriage.
9. She’s responsible
Does she remember appointments and meetings? Does she flake all of the time? She should already do a good job of managing her own life. If she’s got loads of debt and doesn’t work, you’re going to be taking all of that on. Ultimately, she will have some part in your financial well-being, and guess what? Finances remain one of the leading causes of divorce.
10. She gets along with your family and friends
If she doesn’t even try to connect with your family and/or friends, let her go. She shouldn’t be critical of the people who you love and have been loyal to you throughout your life. There might be cases where your mom doesn’t like your future wife, and that may require your intervention; but in general, she should be a good fit with the people in your life. Marriage is a joining of two lives that existed prior to meeting the other person.
When it comes down to it, you know what you can handle. Love can overwrite any of the qualities above, but having these qualities will certainly make your lives easier once you are married. No one’s perfect. Even with this list, both of you are still going to bring some kind of baggage into the relationship. Make sure premarital counseling is a huge priority once you find her. My wife and I did a relationship bootcamp in addition to premarital counseling. One session just doesn’t cut it. Throw everything but the kitchen sink at the most important decision you will ever make.
So what can you say about this? I think I have most of the qualities here.. no wonder I’m married now. Just kidding! Lol!
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Posted on Dec 02, 2013 under blogging |
My cousin Tan buzz me a while ago when I was online and he asked me to check on rickenbacker guitar at musicians friend. Apparently, he has been digging this instrument as an addition for his music studio. He was having second thoughts because of its price and his limited budget but I think with a little review from me he will finally convince himself to buy it.
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Posted on Nov 26, 2013 under blogging |
When designing a building, it’s necessary to draft floor plans. These plans show what the layout of the building and the rooms will look like from above. Everything in the floor plan is drawn to scale. When you need someone to work with the foundation of a building, they’ll need to know quite a bit about what type of building they’re working with. Before you search for “Plano foundation repair” for your Texas home or business, make sure you have a good understanding of the building you need work done on.
One- and Two-Story Homes
One-story floor plans have every room for living and sleeping on one level. Two-story floor plans typically have more privacy than one-story buildings, but use up a lot of space because of the added staircase. A two-story home can be converted to a three-story home by adding an attic or basement.
Buildings that are designed for more than one family include townhouses, apartments and condominiums. Since each home shares both land and some walls with other homes, these types of spaces will cost less for the renter or home owner. There are various types of setups for multi-family homes, though, which will be a major consideration when the foundation needs work.
Commercial buildings have to be specially designed to match the particular company they house. For example, a retail store will differ greatly in design from an office building or machinery. Every commercial building has to be designed in a way that maximizes space and increases profit, if possible. This means that a grocery store, for example, has to fit in as many products as possible while still maintaining enough space for shoppers to fit comfortable. The same goes for many retail stores. However, certain retail shops, like Apple stores, for example, seem to like having open, airy space while still displaying their newest and most popular products. When a commercial place closes and a new type of store is housed there, there may need to be a complete renovation depending on what type of new business is moving in.
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Posted on Nov 24, 2013 under blogging |
It’s Monday once again, I’m up early for me to attend my work.
I’m still a bit sleepy because of the browsing I made on a zoom r16 at guitar center. I was eying for it to give as a birthday gift to my brother who really loves music and who owns a music studio. I just before the month of his birthday I will have the funds to buy it. Lol!
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